An evening of song celebrating divorce, dating, and making your own party.

Originally performed September 2017 at NYC’s premiere and historic cabaret The Duplex in Greenwich Village before a sold out house of incredible supportive and energetic friends, family, and strangers.

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I met my ex-husband on the first day of college at the age of 18. We got engaged when I was 24, married when I was 25, and I filed for divorce just before my 31st birthday.

I know, I know. But I look SO young. I promise, I’m not as young as I look.

This show was created from my jounral entries through the most transformative transition of my life (and I’m a mom now so that’s saying A LOT) as I rediscovered myself, my voice, and wtf I want from this one wild and crazy life.

Featured songs from The Muppets, Carole King, Avenue Q, [Title of Show], and more! This is an evening you won’t forget.

“You’re not the boss of me, I am!”

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After over a decade in musical theatre and over thirteen years in a problematic relationship I was tired of being told what to do. It was time to take the bull by the horns are start writing my own story, directing my own show, literally…creating my own shows. So that’s what I did. And it turns out…I’m good at it. Like…really good at it.

Watch the full show here!
“Alissa is like a big breath of fresh air – her energy and humor can instantly uplift a room. Her dance moves, her singing, her storytelling – all of it makes you want to lean in. And while she is a gifted performer, she is also a powerful voice on topics related to feminism and social justice for women. A true force in the world – and a gift to anyone who meets her.”
Blair Badenhop
Host of the podcast Brand Yourself
“I could not be happier to have shared in the fun, and even in the moments of occasional sadness- which obviously made you very wise and very strong… You write so well! From the little I’ve spoken with you it was obvious how smart you were, but still… Wow! ”
Summer B.
Writer
Alter’s Me Party went over better than you might have expected for a show that included a hashtag in the title. In fact, it went better than most cabarets — because Alter embodies the type of spunk and assertive, winning style that he professed to have too little of just three years before. At the end of this whirlwind of fun I was left with only one thought: I’d like to have one (or two or five) of whatever martini she’s having.”
Chris Struck
Cabaret Scenes

Alissa Alter (She/Her) is also known as “The Amy Poehler of vaginas” because of her unfiltered determination to change the narrative around the female experience. Integrating her eclectic background as a Broadway performer, a personal trainer, and coach, Alissa’s work guides you back home to yourself with a sense of curiosity, potential, and possibility. Alissa is the author of Unstuck: From Understudy To The Study of Your Undercarriage, host of the podcasts Alter Your Life and Myth of Motherhood. Her one woman show Me Party #ilovemylife sold out performances at NYC’s historic Duplex Cabaret. She is also co-founder and head of content at pstprtm.com a media platform revolutionizing the postpartum experience through diverse stories, unfiltered articles, and sacred experiences.  Alissa believes that if we as women spend as much time, energy, and discipline on our insides as we do our outsides, we will be unstoppable.