This is a story all about how my life went from a ME party to a WE party.

This is what happens AFTER the happily ever after of marriage and pregnancy. The things Disney did not make a fairy tale about. The things we are NOT supposed to admit and talk about. The AFTER birth.

You’ll laugh. You’ll cry. And you will not enjoy every moment even though people tell you otherwise.

This show started writing itself in my head while in the hospital after giving birth. I’d originally planned to perform a show about motherhood before my son’s first birthday.

Covid had different plans.

So here we are three years later with another baby on the way singing about the things no one tells you about motherhood.

Featuring music from…

Spice Girls, Dolly Parton, Keith Dworkin & Laura Schein, The Muppets, Broadway musicals, Disney movies, and so much more!

“I’m now the neighborhood Amazon truck. Always delivering. Rain or shine. Sleet or snow. No matter what and I really need a break. I need to be…by myself.”

Yes. This show is about me. But it’s actually about all moms.

“Oh wow! Is that a new outfit? I’ve never seen it before! Is Alissa actually onstage singing a song with a piano player?”
Ben
Age 6
“Alissa is like a big breath of fresh air – her energy and humor can instantly uplift a room. Her dance moves, her singing, her storytelling – all of it makes you want to lean in. And while she is a gifted performer, she is also a powerful voice on topics related to motherhood, feminism, and social justice for women. A true force in the world – and a gift to anyone who meets her.”
Blair Badenhop
Host of the podcast Brand Yourself
“You gift for song choice STUNS me. I love that not only was this a vulnerable, funny show, but also really moving. I feel like you should write a TED talk?”
Beth Slack
Comedian, NYC

Alissa Alter (She/Her) is also known as “The Amy Poehler of vaginas” because of her unfiltered determination to change the narrative around the female experience. Integrating her eclectic background as a Broadway performer, a personal trainer, and coach, Alissa’s work guides you back home to yourself with a sense of curiosity, potential, and possibility. Alissa is the author of Unstuck: From Understudy To The Study of Your Undercarriage, host of the podcasts Alter Your Life and Myth of Motherhood. Her one woman show Me Party #ilovemylife sold out performances at NYC’s historic Duplex Cabaret. She is also co-founder and head of content at pstprtm.com a media platform revolutionizing the postpartum experience through diverse stories, unfiltered articles, and sacred experiences.  Alissa believes that if we as women spend as much time, energy, and discipline on our insides as we do our outsides, we will be unstoppable.

Baby Sadwith #2 (TBD) is thrilled to make their stage debut and can’t wait to make their life debut in May via cesarean. Mom says her vagina is not available as an exit and I respect a woman who knows what she wants. I like clementines, pickles, and unisom. Can’t wait to meet you at the show!

Hee Sung Kim (She/Her) is a versatile pianist, collaborative artist, music director, and pedagogue. Her music career began at the Juilliard School Pre-College division at the age of six. It led to her first public solo and collaborative performance at Alice Tully Hall and Carnegie Hall. Since then, her extensive performing career has led her to venues across the world, including Steinway Hall, Seoul Arts Center and The Grand Hall of the Moscow Conservatory.
Hee Sung holds a B.M. from Seoul National University, M.M. from Yonsei University, and Professional Studies Certificate from Manhattan School of Music.