Why talk when we can dance about it?
This isn’t a regular party, it’s a cool party
This isn’t about nailing the choreo.
It’s about being in your body, surrounded by your people, feeling powerful, playful, and fully alive.
We laugh. We sweat. We hype each other up.
And when it’s over, you’ll leave knowing you just hosted the most iconic event ever—because you did.
Alissa’s Private Dance Party…
A custom dance experience for you and your BFFs.
Whether it’s a birthday, bachelorette, mom’s night out, or just because…
you deserve a celebration that’s about joy, freedom, and feeling yourself.
Leave your jeans and going out tops at home! This isn’t a regular party, it’s a DANCE PARTY!
Picture a sleepover with your best friend, making up a dance for the camp talent show combined with a bat mitzvah with a splash of In Living Color fly girls ← THIS IS THE VIBE!
This is movement that’s equal parts empowerment and preteen sleepover.This custom dance class/party/experience will make you sweat, connect, laugh, and dance your heart out!

Party features…
- A private, high-energy dance class (zero pressure, all fun)!
- Music that slaps—curated to your vibe or event theme!
- Easy-to-follow choreo that makes everyone feel like Beyoncé!
- Mind-body coaching baked in – because we’re moving the body and the soul!
- Space for celebration, storytelling, games, dance battles, toasts, dedications, surprises…the limit does not exist here!
- Optional themes! 90s/00s throwback, girl power, disco, “bad mom” dance crew, and more! Want to focus on the pelvic floor? Make it a Pilates class? A combo? I’m IN!
Don’t take my word for it…
Here’s what the people are saying!






Ready to start customizing your event? Email me!
Pricing varies depending on number of guests, length of event (60 and 90 minute options available), add ons, etc!
Everything is customizable to YOU!
brb…just grabbing my jeans and going out top…
They call me The Amy Poehler of vaginas
But my friends call me Liss.
I am a classically certified Pilates instructor, semi retired Broadway dancer/singer/actress/comedian, host of the podcast Myth of Motherhood, author of Unstuck: From Understudy To The Study Of Your Undercarriage & Dear My Vagina (coming soon!), speaker, I’m a Jill of all trades → it’s literally my middle name!
I’ve been teaching Pilates for over 20 years with almost half of that specializing and studying the pelvic floor. I have been dancing and performing for over 35 years. I know…how do I look so young?! I have worked with people ages 7 to 92 from NFL and FIFA athletes, Rockettes, Joffrey ballet dancers to SAHMs, CEOs, playwrights, and everything in between.
My one woman shows Me Party #ilovemylife and We Party #thisismotherhood played to sold out audiences at NYC’s Duplex Cabaret. I believe that finding joy, ownership, and proficiency in your body is the biggest eff you to the patriarchy. It’s time to find, connect, and integrate our Deep V Energy (like Big D Energy, but way better) in order to secure our rights and build a better, safer, more equitable future.

Your Q, my A
Don’t see your question listed? Email me!
Do I need previous dance experience?
Absolutely not! All that is required is a desire for joy and fun. I create choreography that is easy to pick up and accessible for ALL bodies.
What do I wear?
I will likely wear a unitard and invite you to do the same! Jk! Well, you’re def invited but you can wear anything that makes you feel awesome that you can move in. Something you’d wear to a yoga class would be appropriate.
Is this a dance class or a party?
Both! I will lead you through a dance class and we can customize it for you! If you want to make sure we have a few songs to just dance, you got it! Wanna play freeze dance? Let’s do it! Want me to direct everything so you have nothing to think about? I’m all in!
What if I want to surprise my guests with a solo?
Say no more, we can have private rehearsals before the event and WOW the unitards right off your guests! (additional fees apply)
Can we drink?
We can absolutely reserve time for a toast and a drink before you head out for the rest of your night (or home to bed).
Celebrate the way you were always meant to…
dancing your heart out!
Tell me what you want (what you really, really want), bring your friends and I’ll take care of everything else!